Help needed

What do you do when someone you are close to has hit the self destruct button??

I have tried ignoring it but it didn't go away.
Recently it has got worse but when they just won't listen or take the advice needed where do you turn?

(I never said this had to make sense)

Political friends

I feel bad that I feel this way but I was really annoyed with some friends of mine recently on a night out when none of them seemed to care that I wanted to go home and just kept dragging me along. One of them had said she would definitely be going home early so I was all set to go home early with her thinking great at least one of them knows what it is like to have to get up to kids when you are hungover! It is not fair to the kids and is certainly no fun for you!!!
And then there is all the politics involved with my friends. I like to be friends with everyone. I get on with them all on different levels and enjoy their company. However there are some of them that don't talk to others for whatever reason and it makes things very difficult for the rest of us when trying to organise a night out. I would like everyone to go but that can't happen because while they will pretend to be nice to each other it is so false and forced it makes everyone else uncomfortable. I don't care who caused the problems or what the problems were but I hate that it splits the group of friends that we had and I hate having to think about what if she sees us out and willshe be pissed off we didn't invite her and all that sort of crap. I am too long in the tooth to be worrying about that kind of crap!!!!!

I hate when I am in work and someone asks me about something tht is written in the diary. Do they not look at the writing and realise that is not my writing!!!!!!! It really bugs me that everyone there assumes I have written everything everywhere to do with anyhing even though there are another 5 people there and we all write in the diary as much as each other. Ok done for now.

I am pre-menstual so some of what I am feeling is probably coming from that and this being my first post will probably be long-winded and seem petty but it has to be done.

I am annoyed that my parents seem to worry more about the birthday gift they get for their daughter in law than for me. It is not that I want anything expensive or anything just something with a bit more thought than 2 bottles of wine!!!! I probably wouldn't have minded except it was my 30th so I was hopeful for something a bit more for me like a spa voucher or something I could use to pamper myself. I have 2 small kids and could do with a bit of self indulgence!! I was also disappointed that my family didn't organise anything for my birthday, as a rule we are a family of party throwers especially surprise parties so I was a little more than upset that nothing was done at all. If I hadn't decided to have a cake in my house it probably would have gone without anything at all.

Now, they are great at helping out with the kids and minded them overnight when my husband and I went out and all and maybe I am being unrealistic to think or to expect that they would do nything else but that is why I created this blog so I can voice these unrealistic expectations and get them off my chest so they can stop bothering me!
There will probably be more later.